Sit back once in awhile and evaluate who they are and whether or not they meet your criteria as a lifelong partner and remember it takes two years to get to know someone.Authenticity Do you feel accepted and liked for who you are or do you get the feeling your relationship partner is giving you pointers of who you should be? The fact you are writing me alerts me to the fact this might be a careless decision for you personally. You need to consider what kind of cop he is and what kind of civilian you are in order to assess how really unwise of a decision dating this policeman might be. Are you the leader of an organized crime syndicate? If you answer yes or maybe, getting romantic with an officer is definitely not a great idea, probably not even a good one. If so, a police officer is quite likely an unsuitable suitor. In general we can surmise that dating cops is acceptable behavior in western society because lots of people do it.I was well aware of these ups and downs before I married my husband and I have never regretted it.
Surely law-abiding commoners can date police officers without ending up in jail. Which brings us to ponder what kind of badge you have found yourself attracted to in this scenario.In last month's article, , we discussed the challenge of simply meeting good people to go out with, and then offered some suggestions to make meeting them easier while avoiding human landmines.This month's article is particularly for those who are dating and looking toward the future, know someone who is, or might someday be.It's a Worry: Now not all branches of policing are going to involve any danger and if they're a desk jockey or a ticket inspector then this isn't necessary likely to come with any particular risk.However if they are out patrolling the streets or even directing traffic this can be a different story and if you are the kind of person who is prone to worrying then this can mean that you are left at home worrying about whether they are going to make it back okay or not.I have comforted my children and made up for these times by doing something else that is fun for them, all the while wishing my husband could be there with us.